The Boring Secret To Turning Her Into A Nymphomaniac
Every day I get hundreds of DMs from guys, and the biggest question I get from them is along these lines:
“Help me! My woman’s sex drive is non-existent. How do I boost her libido so that she wants to have sex more often?”
They want to know:
- Is there a pill to boost her libido?
- Is there a physical technique they should use that will magically turn her on?
- How come they buy her flowers/gifts often, but she still doesn’t want sex. Why isn’t this working?
All these questions are coming at the issue of low libido from the wrong angle.
They assume that libido should look the same in women and men and that, if it doesn’t, it’s because women have low libido. They also shift the focus to medications rather than taking care of the relationship and sexual needs that can boost sex drive for women (and men!). And many of these things are psychological.
You may have even heard that cheesy phrase that the brain is the biggest sex organ in women. Well, it’s true. Read Take Me Right Here; Making Your Woman Do Anything in Bed
Let me break it down as simply as possible.
There are “Brakes” that lower your girl’s sex drive and “Accelerators” that increase her sex drive. These Brakes and Accelerators are mostly psychological, and they can both be happening at the same time. This is why it’s known as the dual-control model of sexual desire; although, the researchers describe these forces officially as the sexual excitement and inhibition systems rather than accelerators and brakes.
But knowing the technical name is less important than understanding how the dual-control model of Accelerators and Brakes works in reality.
Brakes that lower her sex drive include:
- Stress
- Low self-confidence
- Feeling taken for granted
- Feeling unattractive
- Lack of trust
- The wrong time in her menstrual cycle (aka her period).
- Certain medical conditions
- Responsibilities in the home
- Sex-negative messages she’s absorbed
- Sights, smells, or other senses that turn her off
- Fear of pregnancy or STIs
- Anxiety, depression, or low mood (Read Female Pleasure 50 Creative Naughty Sex Moves to Thrill Her )
Accelerators that increase her sex drive include:
- Feeling deeply desired
- Sexual tension
- Flirting
- A passionate guy
- A partner who is charming to her friends (yes, this can be huge!)
- A small gift (flowers, cooking dinner, doing the dishes, putting the kids to bed, etc.)
- Feeling secure in her relationship
- Being comfortable with her body
Here’s the funny thing about these Brakes and Accelerators…
No matter how many accelerators you push, if the Brakes to her sex drive aren’t removed, her desire for sex can still be zero.
It’s like putting your foot on the accelerator when driving your car while at the same time keeping it in park with your other foot on the brake.
Here’s what I mean.
She could have her celebrity crush in front of her, telling her he wants her, BUT…
If she is super-stressed, has low self-confidence, doesn’t trust this celebrity, and has a medical condition like diabetes suppressing her sex drive, then she probably won’t want to have sex with him.
So, if you want to boost her sex drive, you need to:
FIRST, remove the Brakes to her sex drive, then afterward, focus on pushing the Accelerators to make her horny.
I talk more about removing the Brakes to her sex drive in this guide; Crack Her Code; The Art and Craft of Sexually Driving Her Wild In Bed
And in another section of this guide below, I talk about pushing down hard on the Accelerators to her sex drive to make her horny.
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